a conversation with a friend today got me thinking that every friendship should be tested if you really want to know whether your so-called-friends really want to stick with you until the very end.
whether that 'end' means right now, or in ten years, or when one of you are in your deathbed.
it got me thinking that 'teman dekat itu yang pernah saling berantem, pernah saling marahan. if you've never been angry at your friend (or vice versa), it could mean that you don't really know them after all --'
and nature has its own way of selecting friendships; just like organisms.
sometimes it's by being angry at each other, sometimes it's by being hit by a hard circumstance that you have to get through together to pass; and sometimes it's by being there for one another when bad thing happens to one of you.
semakin dewasa, semakin sedikit teman di sekeliling kita. and sometimes it is a good thing -- those people that stay with you are the ones that's really worth your time and your presence; your joy and your tears; and most importantly: they're the ones that really deserve that space in your heart that you're saving for that special someone.
